What sets Holistic and Spiritual FinDom apart from what you may consider traditional Financial Domination?
Before I dig into Holistic/Spiritual FinDom, I want first to talk a little about its history. I have not done any academic research on the topic so the history I present is taken from anecdotal accounts. According to the Twitterverse, the origins of FinDom can be traced back to BDSM Power Exchange dynamics. This practice/service was seen as an opportunity for individuals, namely individuals within BIPOC communities to reclaim power and control in a society that marginalizes them. Therefore, using FinDom to challenge traditional power structures and assert agency in a world that privileges whiteness makes perfect sense to Me. So, whether this history is real or fabricated, it is an idea I can get behind.
However, how I would like to participate in the power exchange is not going to look like the “traditional” play. Although I have participated in BNWO scenes, I honestly try not to infuse any discussion of “Superiority” within My play because that is a white supremacy outlook. Even within BNWO scenes, it is not about Black Superiority/white inferiority or race play dynamics, for Me, but far more about Black Girl Magic and Ebony Goddess Energy. Stay tuned for the blog post explaining more about this topic.
Now, you may be wondering, “If My FinDom play doesn’t look like the "traditional" play what does it look like?”
First, My Holistic/Spiritual FinDom scenes are not about humiliation. They are about letting go, balancing control, and finding your deeper self. Money is a tool that can be used to humiliate and control, particularly in capitalist societies. With this play, I do not use it to humiliate you. I will use it to balance control and allow you to surrender control through the various tasks I assign. However, I understand some submissives like a harsher tone. If FinDom humiliation is what you seek, the sessions I offer are not the ones for you.
Second, as many of you know, I am a sensual, nurturing Dominatrix. I use My Feminine Divine energy -- My luscious figure, My soft tone, and My emotional intelligence to dominate submissives. I am commanding, demanding, and assertive, never aggressive, harsh, or rude. I prefer to use honey to lure … catch … I mean... entice ;-). My FinDom sessions will incorporate these aspects.
Lastly, I want to use these sessions to help you to grow and explore. I want to create a long-term dynamic of trust, mutual respect, and intimacy. I want to nurture lasting relationships with ALL of My submissives. I want you to experience the profound impact this type of dynamic has to offer. Let Me develop a financial plan for you. Give Me access and I will create your monthly allowance. I will set your goals and W/we will reach them together.
Here is what you will get to experience:
Spiritual Depth – surrender control and let go of worldly possessions.
Power Exchange – find a sense of purpose from presenting offerings to Goddess.
Holistic Connectiveness – explore new dimensions of yourself within kink/BDSM that you could not experience with "traditional" FinDom dynamics. Who knows you might be pleasantly surprised.
If you are curious and want to know more, let’s explore.
Feel free to call Me on My FinDom Niteflirt listing UNTETHERED INDULGENCE.
Thanks and until then,
Stay Provocative.
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